Habits of Mind
Helping our learners know what to do when learning gets hard
At our kura, we are continuing to build Learnership: the capability students develop when they learn how to learn. Recently, our staff focus has been on the Habits of Mind. These are not personality traits that some children simply “have”. They are learning behaviours that can be taught, practised, strengthened, and used when work becomes challenging.
The Habits of Mind help students move beyond just finishing the task. They help students ask:
What kind of learner do I need to be in this moment?
When learning feels difficult, students might need to practise:
- Persisting — staying with a challenge when it becomes frustrating.
- Managing impulsivity — pausing, thinking, and choosing a better next step.
- Thinking flexibly — trying a different strategy when the first one is not working.
- Thinking about thinking — noticing how they are learning, not just what they are learning.
- Striving for accuracy — checking, refining, and caring about quality.
- Questioning and posing problems — being curious and asking thoughtful questions.
- Taking responsible risks — being willing to try, test, and improve.
- Thinking interdependently — learning with and from others.
- Remaining open to continuous learning — understanding that improvement is always possible.
These habits matter because challenge is where growth happens. When work is too easy, students may feel successful, but they are not necessarily growing. When work is too overwhelming, students can shut down. The Learning Zone sits between these two places: stretching, but still possible with effort, strategy, support, and reflection.
This is why we are helping students see difficulty differently. Instead of “I can’t do this,” we want them to ask, “What habit would help me here?” Instead of rushing to finish, we want them to pause, check, adjust, and improve. Instead of waiting for an adult to solve the problem, we want them to build the behaviours that help them take the next step.
At home, you can support this by noticing and naming the learning behaviour, not just the result.
Instead of: “You’re so clever.”
Try: “You kept thinking flexibly when your first strategy didn’t work.”
Instead of: “Just try harder.”
Try: “What strategy could you change, check, or repeat?”
Instead of: “Don’t worry, I’ll help you.”
Try: “Let’s work out what the challenge is asking you to practise.”
Instead of: “That was easy for you.”
Try: “What habit helped you do that well?”
Our goal is not simply for students to complete more work. It is for them to become more skilful learners: young people who know how to persist, reflect, adapt, question, collaborate, and keep improving when learning becomes challenging.
How learning gets done around here:
We stretch into challenge.
We practise the Habits of Mind.
We pause, think, and choose better strategies.
We use mistakes and difficulty as information.
We build the behaviours that help us grow.